Today I would like to raise such a problem as the inability of emotional separation from the parents. Sadly it is a common situation where people are unhappy and don't know what to do with their feelings. People get stuck unable to live their life, following parent's scripts of life. Emotional child-parent separation happens around pre-teens ages when children start having their own interests, opinions, friendships and in general, disagree with parents. It is a natural phase

My whole life, I’ve been a good girl, tried to do the right thing. Please don’t take me wrong I did rebel many times! And if you ask my parents or my ex-boyfriend(s) they would sarcastically smile when I say that I was a good girl. But the truth is that I am: I have never tried drugs or did stupid things, I am deeply upset if my parents do not agree with me, my family is my priority number one, my children are the world to me, I am happily married for 15 years. Imagine my ama

As promised, this post follows on my previous post about weight. Weight loss can be intentional, as when we diet, or unintentional as when get ill. In this post I am talking about people that are naturally thin or loose/lose weight unintentionally Sometimes people suffer from a quick loss due to chronic diseases such as gastroenteritis, bowl disease, and overactive thyroid. Such illnesses can get worse when a person experiences problem that the mind unconsciously translates i

Today I would like to touch a subject of weight gain according to psychosomatics. If you look at your family tree, you could notice your family’s predisposition in relation to weight. According to psychosomatics, weigh is a defence mechanism against outside danger. For example, one person hundreds of years ago was on a battlefield, and because he was big, strong and intimidating, it helped him survive. Especially if there was a situation when his enemy got scared and run away

Yesterday we had an interesting family experiment. Entertaining our children in a corn maze, we split up into two teams. The goal was to get from point A to point B. My husband with our younger son took out a compass, as usual. By now both are a pro using it! They are people of civilization and logic; they never go out without a map :). Another half of the family, my older son and I, love surprises and spontaneity. So we split up into two teams, one was using a compass and an